Fear Factors and Faith: Why Your Anxiety Doesn’t Make You a Bad Christian

Fear Factors and Faith: Why Your Anxiety Doesn’t Make You a Bad Christian

by | Anxiety, Christian

Christian Anxiety. That should be an oxymoron, right?

Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’

Isaiah 41:10 (NKJV)

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 4:6-8 (NKJV)

Fear not. Do not be dismayed. Be anxious for nothing.

Those are the directives. You are a Christian. You want to obey.

So, why then, are you still afraid?

Well, we live in a fallen world, and the Word tells us that we have a spiritual enemy who seeks to steal and destroy. He wants very much to steal our peace and joy, and to destroy our faith. And, when life falls apart, the people you love fail you, or it feels like you’re under attack, the world can feel scary. No matter who you are or what you believe. Even when you know where your hope lies, it can still take a toll.

Anxiety often comes with human territory. And some of us have it worse than others.

Is Christian Anxiety a thing? Yes, good Christians can get anxious

All Christians struggle and suffer. It’s important to grasp that we were created with nervous systems designed to respond to the trials and traumas of life. Your responses simply may have shifted into overdrive. To hide or deny them can simply create a cycle of shame you don’t have to endure. Now, God might very well be calling you to a life of increased faith, sanctification, nervous system healing, and a greater revelation of who He is in response to the anxiety you experience. But, it is the enemy of our souls who wants to keep us ashamed of our need for maturity, growth, and healing.

Your frustration with the power that anxiety has in your life is shared by many Christians. They too, feel burdened by the way fear and worry interfere with everyday life. You are not alone in feeling that your perpetual upset seems to keep you at odds with a divine command to live without fear. Persistent fear does make it hard to enter into all that is available to you as a precious, beloved, child of the King.

But before you judge yourself too harshly, remember this: God knows your fear, that’s why he addresses it biblically more than 365 times. Every day you can read how normal you are for needing help and reassurance and how much he wants to comfort and deliver you.

Your anxiety is a shared struggle, not a shameful secret

Alright, so now you know that anxiety is not uncommon, but you likely wonder what it says about the quality of your faith. You’re not alone here, either. Too often, Christians amplify their worries by hiding their fear from each other and berating themselves for failing to be fearless.

It is vital that you understand that persistent anxiety, while a spiritual matter, can also be a stronghold in your neurobiology based on your experiences. Fear can be a deliverance issue, and it can also be a healing issue–I’ve seen and experienced both. But many Christians get hung up here, believing that anxiety is unacceptable for faithful members of the flock. The implication for anxiety sufferers is that deliverance and relief are withheld from Christians who just don’t have enough faith.

But that isn’t true.

You also needn’t believe the voice in your head or those few whispering in the church that you are a bad Christian for wanting and needing professional help.

Again, over 365 times in the scriptures the “fear not” command occurs, not because God wants to remind you to keep plugging away unsuccessfully, or pretending dishonestly, to be above the worry. He is lovingly letting you now that he wants you to seek his comfort and power.

The process of “good Christian-ness” we’re expected to undertake includes worshipping in spirit and truth, praying without ceasing, giving thanks in all things, and humbly making our requests known to our King. What qualifies you as a faithful Christian (in addition, of course, to believing and professing that Jesus is Lord, that he died for your sins, and that he rose from the dead) is that you are a willing participant in the process of engaging the resources he’s provided that help you fulfill that process. The Word tells us that if you have been born again, you have been transferred from the domain of darkness into the Kingdom of light. The resources include the obviously spiritual, like worshipping, reading the Word and praying, and inviting the work of the Holy Spirit in your life, and they might include godly professional counseling with techniques that heal the brain and nervous system wounds picked up as part of life in this fallen world.

Take a deep breath. Face the fear. You needn’t slink away in shame or self-recrimination. Anxiety-ridden moments are opportunities to seek God and God-honoring counsel.

Your anxiety does not disqualify you. Handled rightly, it can draw you closer to God

The reality? Panic feels destabilizing. Abuse hurts. Grief changes you. And memories can keep you stuck.

Too often, being a Christian makes us hope against the process of healing.

We want God to grant an immediate miracle of relief, or we get upset with ourselves when fear won’t go away just because we tell it to.

(Now, to be clear, YES God can and does do instant work sometimes! I know because I’ve experienced it.)

However, he also gave us emotions and nervous systems, and sometimes he grows us through a longer process of healing or sanctification. Anxiety (and anxiety disorders) can be an octopus of messy feelings, buried fear, future worries, and unsubstantiated upset that requires real, repetitive, cooperative work.

That’s not necessarily a bad thing, despite what we tell ourselves. The “be anxious for nothing” verse provides direction that shines a light on our Christian responsibility:

” …but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

What a relief! Why?

Because your being a good Christian isn’t reliant on being able to make yourself “fear not” on your own.

You cannot “fear not” without God. He says he will do the guarding and strengthening that is required. That’s not your job.

“Be anxious about nothing” is not about forced fearlessness. It is a humble willingness to do the daily work. And then allowing him to do his redeeming work on your behalf.

However you come by your anxiety—trauma, heredity, or reasons unknown—you are not abnormal, disgraced, or unqualified to be who God called you to be.

Christians struggle internally and suffer sometimes. But you are allowed to acknowledge it and seek relief, in Jesus’ Name.

Christian Mindfulness (Or, Of Course Christians Can Practice Mindfulness. Here’s Why.)

Christian Mindfulness (Or, Of Course Christians Can Practice Mindfulness. Here’s Why.)

by | Christian

Christian Mindfulness (Or, Of Course Christians Can Practice Mindfulness. Here’s Why.)

Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention. Being in the present moment, attuned and aware. Neither fretting about the future, nor regretting the past. Noticing what is, right now. But, mindfulness is Buddhist, right? Or, maybe meditation during yoga? What is Christian mindfulness, anyway?

Mindfulness has been popularized in recent years, and for some, it seems at odds with the Christian faith. Touted by many as a Buddhist practice, it may make some nervous. Promoted as a way to manage stress relief, some may worry that mindfulness attempts to displace God. Well, certainly, it is imperative for the Christian to guard the heart and mind. It is wise to be discerning about mindful practices and what we engage.

But, mindfulness is a practice with immense value, and it need not be inherently Buddhist or attached to any other worldly philosophy or religion. Can it be? Yes. Must it be? No. Being present, still, and listening is an often repeated theme in scripture. Cultivating these practices in Christian mindfulness is fundamentally grounded in obedience to Jesus Christ when applied to our lives.

Essentially, the practice of Christian mindfulness is powerful because it fosters awareness that God does the ultimate work of transforming our moments for our good. Believers do not empty their minds to fill them with their own or worldly ideas. We are opening our minds to receive His truth, ways, and purposes. We trust and believe that He hears and pays attention to our focus on Him. No time spent paying attention to God in full awareness of each moment is wasted.

“And my God will meet all [my] needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:19)

All that we are called to do as believers supports mindfulness. How can we trust and obey him, live without worry, or leave our cares in His care without learning first to be with Him, with the indwelling Holy Spirit, in the present moment?

So, to be sure, following Jesus is a mindful endeavor. Repeatedly, scripture directs us to pay attention, listen, be still, focus, know. These are our responsibilities. Too often we try to work beyond those tasks and become anxious or afraid.

The beauty of our faith is that we needn’t rely on ourselves for the fulfillment of our mindful practice. God reveals Himself and His kingdom as we slow down, get quiet, and truly notice His presence in each moment.

He asks that we lay down our cares and join Him in the here and now. “Stop scurrying around the kitchen and sit with me,” He says to us like He said to Martha long ago, or like He said to the psalmist, “Be still…”

Notice what you are carrying around inside. Is it guilt and shame from the past? Notice it, allow it. Acknowledge that you’re anxious and afraid, or that your chest feels heavy, or your throat feels tight. How can we take every thought captive, as we are commanded, if we aren’t aware of what we’re thinking or if our thoughts are spinning out of control? Mindfulness allows you the safety of the present moment in the presence of Jesus so you can discern His Truth with His help. When we are still and aware, we can experience God’s peace within us physically, spiritually, and emotionally. Focusing on the present moment brings us back into communion with our maker and His reliable care.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid. (John 14:27)

When we mentally and spiritually wander off course into the past or future we find ourselves crying out in anxious overwhelm from our own past regrets and fears of what’s coming.

If you suffer from PTSD or anxiety, practicing being present and safe in His care moment by moment is huge, even as you seek treatment to heal the physiological and neurological impacts of trauma or anxiety. It becomes much more difficult to get lost in the scary possibilities and hypervigilance that come with feeling unsafe or unprepared for some future event.

Christian mindfulness is a powerful reminder of who God is and who we are. What a relief to simply be responsible for remaining in the moment!

God asks us to recall the past only in terms of His might, grace, and salvation. We need only thank Him for his mercy and loving-kindness. Moreover, you are released from guilt and shame. You are loved and your past is covered by his desire to see you saved and focused on his purposes for you today.

God asks us to consider the future only as an acknowledgment of his protection. We can’t see around the corners along the way. He asks us to do nothing but walk confidently right now. Take this moment’s step. Don’t worry about the next. Our job is not to fret, but to trust Him, being fully present because we are confident that we are in his care through whatever comes.

Now, please don’t worry if you’ve struggled to stay present. He‘s still waiting for you with open arms in this present moment. Quiet your thoughts, pay attention. You have the glory of God to reside in, the peace and protection of your Savior to rely on as you live each moment fully attuned to Him.

(And, it is important to note that if you struggle with PTSD or anxiety as a Christian, this does not mean that you are failing as a Christian. The one who created your body and your nervous system knows your struggles. Working with a qualified counselor to rewire your nervous system and heal from PTSD or anxiety can help a ton, just like going to a doctor for a broken leg.)

So, is it okay for a Christian to practice mindfulness? Of course!

Most of all, the present moment is where God is waiting for you to let go of the past (working through it if needed) and release your future to his much more capable care. The present moment is where you can find Him walking alongside you, seeking to lead you.

There, too, you can live with Him vibrantly, freely, and courageously in the here and now.

And there is no better place to be.